During my many years of life and travel over three continents and doing sensual massage, strangers have shared with me and trusted me with their private selves. They seem to think of me as a warm, creative, and friendly coach. I give unique bodywork and will offer my secrets of touch to you. I have been doing Tantra massage in Seattle for 18 years.
Your comfort with communication is important to me. I am a good, respectful listener. Your privacy is important to me. I am not associated with any traditional service.
We need to have a brief and focused communication on the phone before your appointment. Please think of the reason or reasons you wish to enjoy a session with me. We can schedule some time to have a preliminary talk on the phone and it will greatly benefit you. If I do not answer my phone when you call, please leave a time span during which I can return your call. Or, if you can't leave a number, please be persistent. I ONLY DO ONE SESSION A DAY in order to more completely serve you.
A BRIEF OVERVIEW
Together, we will tailor a session of personal and unique exploration with compassionate understanding. The setting is clean and intimate. You can share the deep, natural creativity of your body as we soothe, stimulate, and experience the process.
It is my desire for you to enjoy and learn at the same time. These are sexual secrets sessions. My maturity and years of experience allow me to touch and guide you so that pleasure and awareness can happen together. You can feel free to express your most sensual self during a full body massage. If desired, you can learn how to please a woman. You will definitely be exposed to the highest quality sexual secrets.
I encourage your fullest response so that I can pace myself to help you to build up your intensity. The more you breathe and move and make sounds or communicate, the more you will expand the pleasure all over your entire body. This can lead to you experiencing male multiple orgasm. It may also help with Erectile Dysfunction.
Then I can guide you to increase the excitement or how to maintain the excitement and stay hard longer. In other words, if you need to be able to not have Premature Ejaculation I will show you a method that will work 90% of the time during intense sexual experience. In this method (which is certified by obtainable texts) you can actually feel pleasure rising or expanding in your body while we practice massaging the vajra (penis) again and again.
If you need to be able to avoid Erectile Dysfunction without a drug; a combination of the method mentioned above plus freedom of expression, plus relaxation will increase your possibilities.
TYPES OF SESSIONS
In these pleasuring sessions, you mostly learn by receiving. Tantra sex is based on simple principles.
1. On-going Tantra Sex Coaching and full body massage sessions that relax, rejuvenate and give powerful Tantra sex lessons. We will explore your sexual energy playfully and skillfully. You can experience expansion of intense arousal with expert touch that helps with either Erectile Dysfunction or Premature Ejaculation control. These usually last at least two hours.
2. A one-time, three-hour comprehensive beginner’s session in Tantra Sex. This is good for the busy person or traveler. With this full course you are prepared with the basics to then go forth on your own with self-practice.
In this session, you can be total! You can allow freedom of experience for your whole body. When you have let go of the usual performance goals, you will notice how it all happens so easily. Therefore, in this relaxed and total focused state you can remember and learn, how in the future, you will improve. Female ejaculation is a complex, interesting subject; it not a good idea to make a goal of it. However, the preliminaries themselves give great pleasure. Also it is sure that you will experience how to stay hard longer and maybe even learn or experience male multiple orgasm.
3. Sessions for gentlemen over 50. In these sessions, I will spend extensive time focusing on your unique needs. Like expanding your awareness of intense pleasure. Demonstration of the male G-spot (prostate massage) is also available. Plus ways to energize and stay excited. Communication methods for you and your partner will help with erectile dysfunction.
** In any of the above sessions, you may learn sensual massage methods for your woman. There is a creative way to get more feedback and how to please a woman, and even more fantastic how to excite a woman.
How can you please me? Your trust; your openness to learn, your very presence gives me pleasure.
This is not a escort service. Erotic and exotic it is; "Adult Entertainment" it is not. I do not accept any payment for sexual gratification. This is an opportunity to let go safely, explore your strongest sexual passions, and learn how to reach pleasures unknown before.
DESCRIBE HOW A SESSION GOES
What we are doing is physical, emotional and spiritual and words cannot give an actual exact description. If we make a phone appointment to talk….you will probably receive a better picture of the session and I of your needs.
However, sit back, exhale (Ahhh….) and enjoy…
A session is divided into several parts. How long I spend with each part depends on you – your communication is very important to me. For staying hard longer, you can learn the basics in one session with me. (Of course, you will need to practice self-pleasuring at home in order to get super good at it.) For other interests, you can also learn the basics in one session, however, since this is process-oriented material you may enjoy seeing me more often (sometimes I give discounts for a package). You could also read, study videos and practice with a lover.
So here we go: In the first several minutes we talk about you. I’m interested in any motivations and reasons why you would like to enjoy a session. What intrigues you about what I do? What challenges you? My methods involve touching, noticing sensations, communication (compassionate speaking and listening), breathing, relaxing the whole body, observing and experimenting and responding to touch in a non-demanding manner.
If you are wondering, my sessions are hands on.
Getting started we BREATH together…learning to exhale more and inhale more. I demonstrate a number of ways to do this so it is easy and you will be able to encourage your partner to do so. This is the foundation of the session. Why? Because you realize how much more pleasure you feel moving upward and around your body.
TOUCH WITH FOCUS IN THE MOMENT
This is exquisite, electrical and enlightening, allowing many possibilities for pleasure. (I have added my knowledge and paraphrased some words from Barbara Keesling’s How to Make Love All Night.)
In this exercise, one partner will play the active role while the other plays the passive role. Then you will switch in the middle so no one feels shortchanged. In the tantra body session, you, my client, will lie down on your back and get very comfortable. We will take time as I demonstrate full body massage and you get very relaxed. This part of the session will indirectly lead to you being able to get hard and stay hard longer.
The active partner is going to start caressing the genital area. The touch will be slow and focused at first. You will be focusing, exhaling more and feeling. If anything needs to be changed, I appreciate your feedback.
The giver will be absorbed in the sensations of what it feels like to touch your body. You will receive her total attention, breathing deeply and caressing you in full body massage. Here is what you do: Keep relaxing and breathing and noticing. You will be completely passive yet if your body feels any impulse to move that is fine and even good. You may want to make sounds as you breath (I encourage this). You just try to notice what your body feels as you are being touched. This helps with Erectile Dysfunction.
The deeper you relax the more you notice and feel. The giver focuses on how enjoyable it feels to touch your body and when her mind wanders she will just exhale and bring herself back. We will switch places. Remember that you will be doing the same with your partner. You can then pretend I am your partner and give the touch with focus to me.
Here is an interesting direct quote from Barbara’s book. “If you don’t have a partner, or if you prefer to practice by yourself, the ‘sensual focus genital caress’ is still quite pleasurable. It is important to remember that this is not a masturbation exercise. It is a way of experiencing the many rich sensations of your own arousal. Ejaculation is not a goal. If it happens that is fine, but you are not trying to make it happen. Your goal is simply to create and experience as much sensation in your penis as possible.”
In our session together, we will continue to be playful explore your sexual arousal with a few processes that have evolved in my 18 years of Tantra massage in Seattle.
At some point, we’ll take a break and look at a video of female ejaculation (and others). There is much coaching that leads up to this. We will address how to please a woman. We will learn how to pace yourself, ask questions, even some phrases that are great like “Is there anything WE can do to make this better for you now.?” Another creative idea is that you and your partner pretend you are children and you don’t know how to have intercourse. However, you do want to playfully explore and have as much fun as possible. Female G-Spot stimulation will be taught. This can be amazingly intense and pleasurable for her. I will coach you towards increasing your sensitivity and focused attention and communication methods to use to get her
to
help you.
You will learn to be flexible and creative no matter what mood your partner is in.
PROSTATE MASSAGE — the male G-spot.
For those interested I will carefully lead you into deep relaxation and arousal. All the methods I have been speaking of are going to open you to the possibility of prostate massage which can help increase pleasure and is good for your health.
Easy access from both I-405 and I-5, only a 10-minute drive from the northernmost part of
Lake Washington.
Each session is complete in itself. You can feel and achieve much in one visit. You are free to go forth on your own and apply what you've learned, or to return to me for further discovery in additional sessions. With more visits you can go deeper and have an even more rewarding time.
My sessions can be these lengths of time:
• 3.5 hours
• 3 hours
• 2.5 hours
• 2 hours
Advance appointments are available – all you need to do is provide me a phone number (for confirmation purposes only). I will need to call you on your private phone number one to two hours in advance. Confidentiality is strictly observed.
Spontaneous Appointments are also available. Call one or two hours before you are able to arrive at my studio in the north Seattle suburbs. The spontaneous appointments are usually available between 4pm and 9pm (but often at other times as well).
Please remember that your privacy is of utmost importance to me.
I will explain my rates to you on the phone. There are never any extra charges. I do not accept any payment for sexual gratification. This is an opportunity for you to let go safely, explore your strongest sexual passions, and learn how to reach peaks unknown before.
Shorter appointments are available, but a two-hour minimum appointment is strongly advised. Please discuss details with me on the phone when you have at least 15 minutes free for discussion of what is covered and possible to learn in each session.
For special scheduling circumstances, I take advance deposits.
Due to rescheduling constraints, advance deposits or payments are only refundable up until 24 hours before your scheduled appointment.
“All my life; I’ve wanted these skills”; “I feel comfortable with you”; “That was a lot of fun and I learned a lot”; “I felt waves of heightened pleasure”; “I could still feel the pleasure for hours after the session”; “This playful exploration showed me some new ways to communicate with my partner”; “Joy, you may be the best Tantra teacher in Seattle.”.
MY QUALIFICATIONS
If you are looking for a mature Tantra teacher consider me. I have studied full body massage and Tantra Sex methods with a Master at a university in India, an on-going study since 1975. I am also a certified Acupressure Massage practitioner. I offer specific touching and breathing methods. The most important of these I have done with my own body. I have studied a modern kind of martial art which is about how to stay relaxed yet focused and full of energy. I’ve been doing Tantra Massage and Prostate Massage in Seattle since 1989. For over 10 years before this, I did sensual massage in Hawaii, Australia and Japan.
Put yourself in my expert hands and receive my total, undivided attention.
How to contact Tantra Body:
Please call my cell number: 425-864-1168
If no answer then call my studio 425-338-1894.
Call both numbers persistently anytime between 8am and 10pm.
Please be persistent and of course leave a message. I really need to hear your voice and have at least a 5 minute informational call. You will appreciate my honesty. What I do is very unique and I don't say "yes" to every caller.
If you absolutely are allergic to using the phone, e-mail me at swimming @ seanet.com. This is a much slower system for me and ultimately you will have to call me from a pay phone before arriving at my studio and have a cell phone to call and say you have arrived.
You have just completed reading the essential basics.
Now, here is: Extra information for those who want to go deeper
In a typical session, we will explore and touch on some or most of the following possibilities in your experience at my place.We will tailor our time together based on your interests and personal history. Further sessions will allow for more in-depth exploration.
THE POSSIBILITIES
Breathing often suffers due to anxieties during sex. You will learn to overcome issues by learning a simple yet powerful Tantric method that uses a breathing method to prolong pleasure. In this calm yet energizing time, you can learn methods to delay ejaculation while feeling extensive, peak orgasmic pleasure for up to an hour. Come to the edge again and again. Breathe it up and still stay arosued.
Presence with your partner: learn new techniques for maintaining full awareness and staying fully present with your partner "in the moment" of your mutual enjoyment.
Exercise your “PC” muscles by performing routines for more powerful orgasms and masterful control of your pleasure and elimanate premature ejaculation.
Touch your partner in sensual and playful ways that encourage communication while experiencing pleasure and beyond.
Anatomy understanding and fun exercises in discovery of erogenous zones.
G-spot massage techniques: how to find it, and what to expect when you do – many men are not aware how much that they can help their woman experience intense pleasure.
Continuing clients may continue exploring additional lesson material,
each according to their progress, experience, & interests.
Call Joy: 425-864-1168 (cell)
(Be prepared for brief silence while my
cell phone connects during roaming.) 425-402-8650 (studio)
Call both numbers persistently anytime
between 7am & 11pm.
COUPLES’ SESSIONS
(a few of the possibilities among many):
Opening to trust and expanding the senses:
These are stimulus-response games while each partner takes turns being blind folded. This is a pampering, exciting, and delightfully different "feast of the senses". (This involves taking turns learning, giving, and receiving sensuous, sexy touch and taking turns exploring the senses.)
Guidance in expanding pleasure and whole body arousal:
We explore let-go breathing and the tickle tease game. We also encourage sound making. Then you follow your partner's breath with your touch - "on the edge pleasure" and the "passionate pause".
Gain multiple orgasm and prolonged pleasure for both men and women:
With emphasis on communication, I guide you through performing actual hands-on techniques with each other, for sensual massage of the vajra (penis) and vulva (female genitals). We explore how to watch for and encourage responses. I have been doing sensual massage in Seattle for 17 years.
How to contact Tantra Body:
Call Joy: 425-864-1168 (cell)
(Be prepared for brief silence while my cell phone
connects during roaming.)
TOUCH WITH FOCUS IN THE MOMENT
Easy access from both I-405 and I-5, only a 10-minute drive from the northernmost part of
